[Warning: 18+ post] Hello, everyone. X) So, I feel that I want to talk to everyone about a very important topic. The topic may seem inappropriate, but I believe it is necessary if not significant to learn about. The topic is fetishes. Hear me out real quick. What is a fetish? Well, it's a sexual attraction to something that has absolutely nothing to do with sex itself. A common fetish is a foot fetish, and I'm pretty sure that isn't required for sex. What I really wanted to talk about is how a fetish is gained. Believe it or not, it usually starts when you are a child. At a young age, a child can be exposed to something that gains their fascination. Nothing sexual, just fascination. As they get older, however, they may very well gain more sexual interests (the teenage years and puberty and whatnot). As a result, that "fascination" they had for that certain something turns into a sexual interest, which then becomes a fetish. Here's an example:
A little girl watches tv and a movie or show comes on that happens to show an actress's stomach. Not just that, but the parents aren't there and the show had some "PG-13" sexual scenes. Specifically, an actor may have been touching or kissing the actress's stomach. The little girl is confused, but also interested. She didn't know that people did stuff like that. As time passed, she watched normal cartoons and family shows and movies and was exposed to commercials that showed women half naked. Multiple shows and movies, even cartoons, showed people exposing their torso, and the little girl kept her interests. As she grew older, though, she found that she no longer just wanted to see pictures of stomachs, but also wanted to kiss them...
Sorry if that made you feel awkward, but that is a real life scenario. With all of this information, I have something important to tell all of you: I, Briane Nelom, have a belly fetish. I'm that little girl. I used to be ashamed of it, but I realized that gaining this fetish was beyond my control. As for what I was exposed to? I didn't know what it was doing. So now you guys know what was once a precious secret to me. I am no longer ashamed, but I choose not to act upon it. I can't control the temptations just like how I can't control my emotions, but I can control my actions. So I'm cursed to live with this fetish, but anyone else who has a fetish, don't be ashamed for having it. Chances are, you couldn't control the circumstances. I think if I were exposed to different things and/or grew up with different circumstances, then I may have a different fetish or none at all. That's all I wanted to share with you all. Sorry if you feel awkward and uncomfortable.
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